“I’m breaking up with resolution setting,” I fumed. “It’s only February and I’ve fallen behind on everything!”
This was me, some years ago, ranting and railing to the husband. And as I got ever more angry with my lack of stick-with-it-ness, he quietly said: “Are you sure you’re approaching this whole goal setting thing the right way?”
That made me stop in my tracks and think – my resolutions were a list of things I “should” do:
- Lose 10 kgs
- Exercise everyday
- Be more organized: Clean the living room and prepare for office at night
- Organize the <insert latest pain point in the house>
- Weekend getaways every month
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I had a sense of what I wanted to achieve by the end of this year, but focusing on this word has taken me down paths I could have never imagined.


